We humans fight, hate, and can't withstand other humans when we have unpleasant feelings with each other. When such things are done I feel that it's a clear indication that such people think life is permanent.
Is that true? Is life permanent? What happens if someone disappears the very next minute you hate them? Will you be happy about it or blame yourself throughout your life? I am mostly certain, one will do the later. If you fought or hated for your happiness, at the end looks like you are hurting yourselves with the blame. Is that what you wanted to do for yourselves in the first place? If not, then why to hate? Sadhguru wonderfully described how compassion can solve problems with ease: https://isha.sadhguru.org/us/en/wisdom/article/defeat-thief-zen-story
Death is so powerful in uniting even long time enemies. When one can reunite or wish to reunite after losing someone, why don't you have the courage to do so when they are alive? Atleast that way you will not emotionally hurt yourself later by blaming yourself or by feeling guilty. Always treat others as if you are not going to have the opportunity to meet them again.
On other hand, hatred is a pure result of ones perception. If you perceive others deeds with no expectations, there is no negative emotion possible here. Whatever is the deed and however it is performed, we tend to appreciate it. Only when expects it to be done in a certain way does the whole picture dissatisfaction, difference of opinions come into the picture complicating the process.
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